2.Moisten your lips.
Dry lips do not move well together, but you do
not want them to be dripping wet either. Just a
light brush of your tongue over your lips will be sufficient
to moisten them. A little bit of lip balm can help,
too, but be warned, lipstick can be awfully messy so blot before you
kiss.
3.Angle your head.
If your mouths meet dead-on, your noses will get in
the way, and you will not be able to kiss deeply
or smoothly. To avoid this, tilt your head slightly to one
side. Make sure you do not both tilt your heads to the same
side.
4.Close your eyes.
As you approach for the kiss, look into your partner's eyes,
but, once you are close to theirs, close your eyes. It
can be a bit of a turnoff to be kissing and going cross-eyed
.
5.Start with a gentle and soft
closed-mouth kiss. The French kiss is an open-mouth kiss,
but do not lunge in with your lips agape like you're going to eat
them; instead, open your lips very slowly. If you were learning to
speak
French, you would probably start with the basics, vocabulary and
grammar, before trying to write poetry. Well, the French kiss is
like the poetry of kissing, and before you can be good
at it, you have to master the closed-mouth kiss. Even after you have
added French kissing to your romantic repertoire, it is usually better to
start a kiss with closed lips.
6.Go Dutch on the decision to
French. Kissing should be a shared decision. You need
to have permission to French kiss someone, but when
your lips are locked with your theirs you may want to stop and ask, "Hey, this
is great, but can I put my tongue in your mouth?" If that
doesn't work out, open your lips slowly and just a little during
the kiss so that one of your lips is sandwiched between theirs and
one of theirs is between yours. As you are locking and re-locking
lips, brush your tongue against your partner's lips ever so slightly.
This should make it clear that you want to French kiss.
If your partner's tongue does not respond in like fashion or if they
pull away, you will have to save the French kiss for another
time when you are both ready.
7.Explore with your tongue.
If you and your partner seem
to be enjoying the open-mouth kiss, slowly try to open your mouth a
little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into
their mouth. The tongue is very sensitive, and the mere act
of touching your partner's tongue with your own will be very
pleasant and stimulating for each of you. Do not stick your tongue too
far into the mouth, as this can be a big turn-off. Instead,
just gently and playfully touch tongues.
8.Mix it up. Kisses are
like snowflakes: no two are exactly the same. Once you finally feel
comfortable French kissing someone, it is tempting to try to do the same thing every time. Add variety. Sometimes
kiss deeper, for example, and other times pay more attention to
the lips than the tongue. Hold the kiss longer or shorter and
explore the art of kissing. When something feels good for each of you, do
not abandon it for the sake of variety.
9.Read body language.
Everybody kisses a little differently, and each person enjoys
different things in a kiss - there is no "right" way to kiss. What
separates good kissers from bad is an ability to read a partner's
body language and be responsive to their partner. Of course if your
partner pulls away or seems uncomfortable at any time, understand
that you have to slow it down. Listen for
cues that tell how much your partner is enjoying a particular
kissing maneuver. If you hear a sigh or moan, or they
begin kissing you back with increased intensity, realize that they are responding with fervor.
10.Develop your style. Good
French kissing, like good
kissing of any kind, requires practice. You will get better as you
do it more. In addition, the more practice you have
with one person, the more comfortable you will feel kissing them and developing a
style that suits both of you.

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